What Never To Say To A Woman

Guys, ladies know that you can be pretty clueless. Have you ever said something "innocent" that got your woman really mad? There are just some things a woman does not want to hear. If you want to keep peace in your relationship, take my advice and don't ever say this to your girlfriend/wife:


Mistake 1:

"Your best friend is hot." She'll end up feeling threatened that you're attracted to someone so close to her. It cause tension anytime the three of you get together. If you think her friend, sister, cousin, etc. is a knock-out - just keep it to yourself.

Mistake 2:

"Maybe You should go on a diet." Women are insecure enough about their bodies as it is. Seeing models and actresses on TV and in magazines makes many women feel like they're not good enough. You should never let her know that you notice her flaws, because she's probably already obsessing over them.

Mistake 3:

"I don't ever want to get married." Most women are interested in long-term relationships. Plus, they love weddings. Telling her that you NEVER want to get married will definitely cause conflict in your relationship. Saying this to a woman may end your reltionship or lead to a psycho possessive girlfriend.

Mistake 4:

"My ex used to do it different." Your new honey does NOT want to be compared to your ex. Do not remind her that you ever had sexual & romantic feelings for someone else. You might end up making her jealous. The exception is when you are making a comparison extremely favorable to your new girlfriend. However, you have to be careful - bringing up past lovers too often for no reason will make her think that your ex is still on your mind.

Mistake 5:

"Maybe I should go without you." If you're going somewhere, and your significant other wants to come, just let her! You know that she might not enjoy herself, but denying her will make her suspicious. Besides, isn't it fun spending quality time together?

Mistake 6:

"That fart you made was killer!" If you're both really close and comfortable with each other, this might be okay. However, when she lets one slip by accident and starts blushing, DO NOT laugh at her. It's an extremely embarassing situation and she doesn't need you to notice that she has "odors."

Mistake 7:

"Why do you always want to talk?" I'll tell you the answer now so that you never ask her this. The reason females always want to talk, is because that's what they're good at doing. They've been doing it for years and that's what they're used to. Your silence can mean a lot of different things to a woman, some bad - so open up and let her know what's really on your mind. If you don't want to talk, say that you don't want to talk right now, but would be happy to in 1/2 hour. Anything else will make you look like an insensitive jerk.

Keep your woman happy and don't utter any of these offensive remarks. Remember that saying the wrong thing could mean that you end up sleeping on the couch tonight!

Ladies Love Unavailabel Men !

It seems she’s everywhere. That Girl. She may be eyeing you from across a crowded dance floor while she grinds seductively against her girl friend. She could be your “platonic” friend who seems to be in a perpetual state of crisis, calling for comfort in the wee hours of the morning a little too frequently. Maybe she’s the receptionist at your office or an online friend who wants to be more. There’s just one problem - you already have a girlfriend.

That Girl is the one with designs on stealing you away from your committed relationship and if you aren’t careful, her very presence could cause your happy twosome to come apart at the seams. Sure, you can think of plenty of ideas to excuse her behavior: she’s just drunk, she’s only a friend, she looks up to me.

Despite your justifications, this girl may be hatching schemes to get between you and your partner. If you want to keep your happy home trouble free, it’s helpful to be aware of some of the motivations these girls might have so you can avoid falling into an inappropriate situation.

Low Self-esteem

In most cases, the reason these girls go for someone who is already attached is that they have a very low opinion of themselves. Outwardly, she may be acting like she’s God’s gift to everyone else’s boyfriend, but inside she’s just too scared to approach an available guy for fear of getting shot down. If she can’t get in your pants, at least she can blame it on your girl’s presence and not her own qualities (or lack thereof).

Idle Time

Some of these girls are simply bored and going to a club to hit on other people’s dates is just part of the fun of a Saturday night. This motivation is usually fairly harmless and rarely carries on longer than the night in question. However, if you start responding to her come-ons, you could have a fight to take home with you. Steer clear of the slutty drunk chick that seems oblivious to the fact that you’re paired up.

She Loves Drama

This is a similar motivation to boredom, but more far-reaching. The girls addicted to drama are going to take time to build a foundation of trust with you. This is usually centered on turning to you with some kind of emotional crisis.

The most effective way to cement this “support system” is to confide to you the terrible breakup she’s going through with an allegedly abusive guy. If you have even one sensitive bone in your body, you’re going to find it difficult to turn away from a heartbroken girl who has been treated like garbage by a scum bag guy.

For the sake of your relationship, take it easy on the all night cry fests. It’s good to be a friend, but your girlfriend is the one that deserves the majority of your emotional support.

Father Figure Issues

They say girls seek out mates that are like their fathers. If her father habitually cheated on her mother, or left the family for another woman, she could be repeating this relationship pattern, consciously or unconsciously. Trying to get a guy to stray from his commitment just proves a self-fulfilling prophecy for her. She believes all men will cheat, so she might as well help.

Real Feelings

This is less likely to happen in real life than romantic comedies would have you believe. People rarely fall totally in love with someone else’s mate unless the mate is willing to stray. If what she has is a passing crush or a case of puppy love, you don’t have to worry. The infatuation should fade if you make the boundaries clear.

However, if her feelings run deeper, you’ll have a more difficult task on your hands. Let her down gently, but make sure she knows how in love with your girlfriend you are. She has to know beyond a shadow of a doubt that she has no chance of breaking you two up.

Understanding Your Girlfriend !!

Women are complex creatures, sometimes frustratingly so. There are times when we make the men in our lives want to throw up their hands in defeat and say, “I’ll just never understand what women want!”

Don’t give up hope. Sometimes the key to understanding your girl is to read between the lines of what she’s saying to discover what she really means.

It’s not entirely our fault that we have this round about way of communicating. Boys are taught from a young age that asking for what they want is the best way to get it, while girls are encouraged to use our “feminine wiles” to maneuver our way into what our heart desires.

It doesn’t help that a straightforward persistent woman in our society is often tagged with unfair labels like “bitch” or “ball breaker”. So instead of being direct, we sometimes take the long way to getting to what we really mean. To help you understand, there are certain things you can look for to help you decode the meaning behind your girlfriend’s words.

She Wants To Be Babied

“I had a really busy day” = “I need some pampering”

When your girl complains about her long hard day, there’s a good chance it’s not just to get it off her chest. She wants you help her relax, but instead of just asking you for a back massage, or to run her a hot bath, she feigns helplessness so you’ll be able to sweep in as her man and fix everything for her.

It’s hard for a modern feminist woman to ask for help from her man. We all want to believe we can take care of ourselves, but there are times when we just want to be coddled a little bit. So, instead of being annoyed by her whining, do the smart thing and ask her what she needs to unwind. Trust me, you’ll reap the rewards later.

It’s Time to Talk

“I don’t feel like talking” = “I really NEED to talk”

You can tell something is bothering your girl, but when you ask she says nothing is wrong. Don’t be fooled, she really does need to talk. She just wants you to press her a little. If you insist on asking what’s wrong it convinces her that you really want to hear about her problems and help resolve them.

Try to encourage her to open up without nagging. Instead, let her know that you are concerned and open to listening. She really does want to tell you about the fight she had with her best friend or how much getting passed over for that promotion at work upset her, but unless you show genuine interest, she’ll probably keep it bottled up.

The only time this translation may not be accurate is when she’s upset about something you did. In this case, she may really need some space and time to think before she confronts you with it.

She’s Feeling Insecure

“I’m not jealous” = “I need reassurance”

You’ve just run into your ex-girlfriend while walking down the street with your current one. You can tell that the unexpected meeting has your girl frazzled, but she insists she’s not threatened.

What NOT to do in this situation is accuse her of being mistrustful or joke about how cute she is when she’s jealous. The right thing to do here is to reassure her of your love and devotion without being too obvious about it. Try something like, “Wow, seeing Suzy again just makes me realize how perfect you and I are together.”

She Wants to Get Serious

“So are we like together?” = “I want a commitment”

Stereotypically, guys are all commitment phoebes while their girls are fervently awaiting him dropping to one knee in the perfect moment of romantic dedication. This may not be universally true, but there’s a good chance she’s looking toward the next stage in your relationship before you’ve even entertained the concept.

Not wanting to come on too fast or too strong, she’ll probably be fairly hesitant to come right out and say she’d like to be your girlfriend or that she thinks that it’s time you moved in together. Make it easy on her by being honest and clear about your feelings and intentions. If you’re not quite ready to pledge monogamy, say so, but tell her that you think it’s a big step, something you don’t want to take lightly.

Ask for some time to think about it. Never make a commitment that you’re not willing to follow through on. If you’re not done playing the field, don’t give the impression that you are. It will only lead to heartbreak.

How to Tell if She Likes You

Do you know HOW to flirt?

Do you know if you ARE flirting (could you be accidentally flirting)?

The following actions are considered to be REAL flirting indicators - check them out and see if you're sending (and receiving) the right message:


How to tell she likes you :

♠ She gazes in your eyes with deep interest and her pupils are dilated.

♠ Her skin tone becomes red while being around you.

♠ Her crossed leg is pointed towards you or if that same leg is rocking back and forth towards you.

♠ She raises or lowers the volume of her voice to match yours.

♠ She rubs her chin or touches her cheek. This indicates that she's thinking about you and her relating in some way...

♠ She winks at you while talking to you or winks at you from a distance.

♠ She exposes the palms of her hand facing you.




♠ Biting of the lips or showing of the tongue,
licking her lips or touching of her front teeth....




♠ Biting of the lips or showing of the tongue, licking her lips or touching of her front teeth....

♠ She starts sitting straight up and her muscles appear to be firm.

♠ She puts her fingernail between her teeth.

♠ She laughs in unison with you.

♠ She touches your arm, shoulder, thigh, or hand while talking to you.

♠ Plays with her jewelry, especially with stroking and pulling motions.

♠ She twirls her hair around her fingers while she is looking at you.

♠ Eyebrows raised and then lowered, then a smile usually indicates interest in you.

♠ While talking to you, she rests an elbow in the palm of one hand, while holding out her other hand, palm up.

♠ In a crowd she speaks only to you and focuses all of her undivided attention on you.

♠ While talking to you, she blinks more than usual, fluttering her eyelashes.





♠ Big smiles with upper and lower teeth showing with a relaxed face.





♠ She speeds up or slows down her speaking to match yours.

♠ She rubs her wrists up and down.

Take Her To Paradise With Your Kiss !!

At the end of a first date comes that awkward moment when you must decide if you want to kiss her or not.

Dating tips for GUYS only Also, if you do kiss her it had better be good to make a favorable impression. It may not be fair, but some single women will judge you on your first kiss as to whether she would be attracted to you want to date you again.

In other words, she must feel some chemistry when she kisses you.

If you are a lousy kisser, then you're going to be a failure at creating good chemistry between you and your date. Is chemistry important on a first date? You bet it is! And if you're a great kisser, you're going to turn her on and have an edge on the other guys that date her that are lousy kissers.

So, just exactly what makes a good kisser and kisses that single women that you go out with won't forget? The key is to be soft and gentle and follow her lead...that's all there is to it.